So if you read the last post you may realize that my baby daddy is a POS. Yea I said it, yes I mean it! A lot of you probably think the same about yours.
So this is to you, you POS.
I told you that fighting with our daughter for the reasons you were, were going to end badly.
You don’t call a 14 year old girl at the exact time of her party that you are supposed to be at to tell her you aren’t coming. Let me tell you what happened… Crying you asshole, she cried while her guests were arriving. And then I tried to blame you not coming, on me. That’s right, I threw myself under the bus to get her over the hurt that you caused. So we move on, she still goes to see you she’s hurt but it’s Father’s Day. Then 10 minutes after you guys leave I get a text “dad went to Elaine’s
the evil bitch gf friends graduation party!” How do I even try and do a ring around that!!! I can’t. I tried. She’s 14 and smarter then I am, obviously. So she stops going to your house. This girl would rather join the cross country team for high school than go to your house. So what does your dumb ass do to get her to come back. Wait for it this is good…
You start a text war with her! You tell her don’t question me, I’m your dad, I support you, you can question me when you can support yourself. Then you get me involved, you tell me exactly what you told her. So I told you, just apologize. Tell her that you should have gone to the party. I tell you she loves you and if you do that she’ll forgive you. I text that if you don’t do this and you keep fighting you will lose her. Hmmm that fight didn’t work as well as you thought it would did it. Did it! So when did you see her last? Have you talked to her? Are you even supporting her anymore? Could you ruin this relationship any more than it already is. Oh yes you could.
Cuz lets see, it’s September 4th. I’m having a hell of a time just trying to get her to go to school and we are fighting everyday. Then she tells not only me but her uncles that she doesn’t want to live anymore. My baby girl says she’d rather die. She hates everything and she hates everyone. It’s 100 degrees outside and she’s wearing a hoodie. She has two or three cuts running down her arm. I show up at your house and I tell you what’s happening and you say “she doesn’t listen to me, just take her.” She can hear you too, stupid. So I take her, we’re there, you aren’t. My parents are in the ER waiting room for 5 hours, they saw her for 2 minutes that whole time. Where were you! How could you not be there? Opening is now slammed shut. Good job there ace.
Window opened again in October. She texts you a picture of herself in her homecoming dress.
Did you even realize that holy shit! she’s creating an in. Text her. Love her. Apologize, dumbass! It’s been since June, you are the adult, make a fucking move. Are you. Can you. Do you. No, you are an idiot.
I’ve been trying to get her back to you. Every weekend I tell her you love her, that you miss her and that she needs to forgive. Yea that’s right I HATE you, but I know she should have you in her life, and I know that she wants you back. Dude be the bigger fucking person, you are the Dad. Apologize, cry, whine, BEG! She needs you! You should be the best guy in her life.
But you aren’t. Don’t worry though she has me and I was both for awhile, in the beginning and when work was more important to you. I am doing it all again and I’m fine with it. She also has the man that I had, her grandpa. He is amazing and he listens. She can look up to real men, her uncles, they will always be there for her. Especially since you aren’t, since you can’t or since you won’t. You are missing out. You won’t get the years back and the longer you wait the less time you’ll have.
So like I texted you before… I’ll let you know when she needs you, so you can NOT be there for her. Again.